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Here’s Why You Should Try These 6 Underrated Sex Toys
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While sexual exploration might be something that you’re missing with another, it doesn’t have to be something that you miss out on altogether. There are so many ways we can explore our undiscovered desires, kinks and pleasure points on our own, by looking outside the box when it comes to sex toys and sexual wellness devices.
Not only is having sexy time with yourself super fun, but it’s also proven to improve mood, mental health and general well-being. Self pleasure is a form of self care, after all. So, why not spice it up? You don’t need anyone but you, boo.
We asked three experts; a male sex coach, an award-winning sexologist and a sex and relationship therapist their top picks for the most underrated sex toys and sexual wellness products. Here’s what they said.
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Butt Plugs
Lovehoney Ambassador and Male Sex Coach Cam Fraser’s number one pick is: butt plugs.
“Butt plugs are an easy-to-use sex toy that can be enjoyed by anyone and everyone,” he says. “They are extremely versatile in that they can be worn during sex, masturbation or foreplay, enhancing pleasure.”
“For someone with a penis, they can provide stimulation for the prostate, creating even more intense orgasm than those from penis stimulation alone. For someone with a vulva, inserting a butt plug increases pressure on the vaginal wall during penetrative sex, increasing sensations.
“During vaginal sex with a partner, but plugs can also provide extra pleasure for your partner by narrowing the space in the vagina.”
Product recommendation: Lovehoney Butt Tingler 10 Function Vibrating Butt Plug 3.5 Inch
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Finger Vibrator
Fraser’s number two pick is: a finger vibrator.
“These mini vibrators are a fantastic place to start if you at new to sex toys — they are user-friendly and can be used on numerous external erogenous zones.
“Don’t let their size fool you – they may be small, but they can be intense!
“I recommend using them on the clitoris or the head of the penis — particularly the frenulum. They can also be fun to use on your or your partner’s nipples, and can be a great addition to your fingers or mouth when having oral sex, bringing in extra stimulation using different speeds and patterns.”
Product recommendation: Fifty Shades of Grey Sensation Rechargeable Finger Vibrator
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Bullet
Lovehoney Ambassador and Psycho-Sexologist Chantelle Otten’s number one pick is: the bullet.
“I think one of the best value sex toys is a bullet vibrator. They are great first-choice vibes, a fantastic couple’s toy and an essential part of every toy collection.
“They are small vibrators that are fantastic for external stimulation, and all share three key features: they’re discreet, powerful and versatile.
“You can use them on there own on an array of pleasure centres, like the clitoris, perineum, nipples or inner thigh. They can also be added to a number of insertable toys to add vibration to them.”
Product recommendation: Lovehoney X Love Not War Amore Sustainable Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
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Glass Dildos
Otten’s second pick is: glass dildos.
“As well as looking like a piece of art, glass sex toys can be extremely pleasurable.
“Due to their material, they can offer firmer pressure and more intense stimulation than say a silicone dildo. They also come in a variety of textures and patterns, which feel great against your vaginal wall.
“One thing I particularly love about glass toys is that they can be used to experiment with temperature play — try popping it in the fridge or a bowl of warm water before using and see how it feels…”
Product recommendations: Lovehoney Sensual Glass Spiral Glass Dildo 7 Inch
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Knicker Vibrator
Lovehoney Group Ambassador and Sex and Relationship Therapist Christine Rafe’s number one pick is: a knicker vibrator.
“Since the introduction of air-suction clitoral toys, they have been best-sellers across the brands that sell them.
“The size, shape, and functionality of external vibrators, make them so versatile and usable for solo and partnered play. Knicker vibrators generally have a lower price point than most other premium products, without any reduction in quality of materials and tech.
“Some designs also include a slip-proof magnet so it can be positioned over the clitoris under underwear and held into place for hands–free pleasure. This also makes it awesome for cheeky partnered play as it can be worn in underwear and app-controlled from the same room, or a different country.
“Their thin design means it’s easy to position over the external clitoris during penetrative sex without getting in the way.”
Product recommendation: We-Vibe Moxie
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Lube
Rafe’s second pick is: lube.
“This isn’t technically a toy, but lubricant is still so underused and underrated, particularly in younger demographics where the social narrative has been that they shouldn’t need it.
“Lubricant can improve every single sensual and sexual experience, regardless of solo, partnered, and what you are engaging in.
“While body lubrication occurs during arousal for many people, various factors can influence how much your body lubricates that are not related to sexual arousal, and the anus is not self-lubricating, so lube is a must-have for anything anal.
“Lubricant also enhances pleasure, sensitivity and reduces friction and the possibility of micro-tearing.”
Product recommendation: Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant