This feature is dedicated to our #NoChangeNoFuture initiative. From the Women's March, to Australia voting yes to same sex marriage, and the #MeToo movement, 2017 taught us to look beyond ourselves and come together as a collective of powerful women who are writing our own history. Join us as we cancel setting one-dimensional personal resolutions this January and commit to being the change we want to see. Because without change, there is no future.
Changing the world. It's a lofty ideal but the concept is what drives most compassionate humans to make good choices in the way they live, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Sometimes when you take a step back and view everything that needs fixing — famine in developing countries, sexual harassment in workplaces around the world, civil wars, plastic destroying our oceans — it can seem completely overwhelming. While no one person can change all the bad in the world, it's entirely possible for all of us to take little steps that will eventually lead to big change.
Instead of looking at the big picture, and seeing an insurmountable challenge, look around you to see how you can make a difference in your micro world. Below, we've researched 10 of the smallest, most simple ways you can make a difference. How many can you say you've contributed to?
Say no to plastic straws, and invest in a steel one instead.
Straws are causing real strife globally, especially in our waterways. We use them for such a short time and then they invariably end up in the ocean, polluting our water and injuring our animals. A recent cleanup in Manly saw 1,200 straws collected by snorkellers over seven dives. Imagine how many are still down there!
Believe someone if they tell you they were sexually assaulted.
Assault survivors have nothing to gain from reporting harassment — except maybe trolls who hurl abuse at them. The reason so many people, particularly women, have remained quiet for so long is because they were led by fear and conditioned to keep the peace. That changes with each and every one of us who believes and supports them when they speak their truth.
Look for a small GoFundMe account you can support.
A quick $5 donation might not seem like much but for those people in need — really desperate need, where every dollar can be the difference between life or death — it could be life-changing. If you're lucky enough to have a few dollars to spare, pay it forward. If you're strapped for cash, you can donate something even more precious: blood. There's a shortage and it's literally a life-saving act.
Shut down a sexist joke.
You know what, they're just not funny anymore. They never were, but especially now we've all had our eyes and ears blasted open by the strong women of Hollywood.
Say no to plastic bags and get yourself a reusable one instead.
Woolworths, Harris Farm and Coles stores in Australia have all made the impressive commitment to ban single-use plastic bags in their stores from June this year, joining Aldi which has only offered reusable bags the entire time they've been in Australia. It's easy to commit to doing the same: buy yourself a bunch of sturdy cotton shopping bags that you can reuse and take them with you when you go shopping. You'll contribute in a big way to the lessening of the 3.2 billion bags that end up in landfill, and our oceans, each year.
Take the time to chat to anyone around you who might be lonely.
Loneliness is a major issue in Australia, with one in four of us feeling lonely almost all of the time or at least on a regular basis. In hard numbers, that's 5.6 million people around us who are suffering from loneliness — a hard number to swallow, but easy to act on. Pick up the phone, visit your neighbours, take time to visit your grandparents, especially if they're alone, ask at a nursing home if anyone needs company, and volunteer somewhere like The Australian Red Cross, which can assign you to an isolated elderly person who would absolutely love some of you company.
On the topic of volunteering: time is one of the very few things that money can't buy, so sharing some of yours will always be greatly appreciated by those less fortunate than you. You can lend your time to some pretty awesome experiences these days, like sharing a meal with new Australians who don't know many people, looking after kittens and puppies, helping people with grant writing and yard work, and more. Not only will you be branching out and trying something new, you'll be helping others in some small way. Win-win.
Be brave and stop bullying in its tracks.
Make it your hard-and-fast rule that if you see anyone being treated in a way they shouldn't, you'll call it out and support the person being bullied. If you can't do it purely because it's the right thing to do, at least do it for 14-year-old Dolly Everett.
Make random acts of kindness a way of life for you.
Leave a nice note on someone's windscreen. Pick flowers for your mum. Pay for the person behind you. Compliment people more! Send a letter to someone you care about, just for fun — it'll make their day, promise. Offer to help even if you don't feel like it. Take the bins out for your elderly neighbour. The list goes on (and it's located here)!
Replace your takeaway coffee cups with a reusable one.
Australia goes through one billion disposable coffee cups a year, and you know what that means? Nearly one billion coffee cups end up on landfill every year (save for the very few truly biodegradable ones). It's nearly impossible to comprehend the sheer size of such waste — but it's remarkly easy to help fix the problem, and you don't even need to sacrifice anything. Buy a KeepCup or similar and keep it with you. It's that simple!
It's progress at a grassroots level: if we effect change in these small ways, and gain enough momentum, the change will make its way to the top. There, legislation can be adapted, and a better way can become the norm. Now that's an idea we can all get behind.