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15 Dirty Date Ideas to Spice Up a Relationship
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ashley paige
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If you’re feeling a little bit bummed that Valentine’s Day is over because you no longer have an excuse to celebrate your love with an extravagant and sexy date night, don’t fret – we have some super-fun date ideas that can be done any day! (And trust us when we say these are fun.) Every day with your special someone should feel like V-Day and be filled with that sweet and special sense of romance. Plus, a little extra spice does a world of good for any relationship, whether long-standing or fresh out of the gate. It’s important to remember and maintain that spark, and a naughty spin heightens the excitement and tests your sexual bravery! Try out the 15 dirty date ideas ahead . . . we’re talking steamy showers, naked kitchen time, sexy movies, and more. We can basically guarantee you and your partner won’t be disappointed.
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Take a Steamy Shower
A hot shower is a nice and easy way to start off. Grab your partner, and hop in the warm water. Play soft, sultry songs in the background, and get clean . . . or dirty.
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Take a Candlelit Bubble Bath
Fill the tub with bubbles, essential oils, and bath salts, and maybe even throw some rose petals in there. Light some candles, grab a couple glasses of wine, and soak up the romantic atmosphere.
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Role Play at the Bar
Pretending you’re strangers meeting at a bar is hot, hot, hot – especially if you’ve been out of the singles game for a while. You can be literally anyone – Zendaya and Tom, Daphne and Simon, J Lo and Ben . . . use your imagination!
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Wear Skimpy Lingerie and Watch Erotic Films
We’ll leave it up to you to interpret “film” whichever way you desire – whether you dive deep into lustful movies or go for something a little more X-rated, you’re sure to have fun together. (And be sure to take a peek at these sexy music videos beforehand!)
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Give Each Other Sensual Massages
Light a candle, grab your best massage oil, and take turns rubbing muscles (and yes, muscles of ALL kinds are permitted).
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Play Dirty Games
Strip poker, adult card games, racy truth or dare . . . the possibilities are endless. The best part? With these games, there are no losers, only winners!
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Read a Risqué Book
Let the seductive words of a narrator paint explicit images in your minds. See how long you can go without making the story come to life in your own bed – the buildup will be SO worth it.
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Make Out in Public
Do a little smooching inside a parked car, on a dark side street, in the back of the subway, in an empty aisle of the grocery store late at night . . . there’s really no need to be picky. The thrill of getting caught will make you feel like horny high schoolers again.
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Go to a Strip Club
Take a note from Gabrielle Union: strip clubs are the way to go. Don your sexiest little number, and head to the local strip club. While you’re there, throw all caution to the wind and order a few lap dances – it’ll make you and your partner pretty hot for each other by the end of the night!
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Do a Hot Workout
Exercising together as a couple can be totally arousing. Check out Strength of Seduction for workouts that’ll make you sweat – in a sexy way.
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Go to a Hotel During Your Lunch Breaks
Choose a workday that won’t be cramped with meetings and reports, and book an hour at a nearby hotel. The urgency and the secrecy will make the experience feel like a very naughty affair.
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Find a Third
If a three-way has always been on your bucket list, check out Feeld: Date Couples and Singles, a destination for curious and openminded singles and couples like you. You may just find your match!
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Make Dessert . . . Naked
Make dessert in the nude. The options are endless – cookies, brownies, cakes, whatever you and your partner are in the mood for. You’re encouraged to use the frosting however you please, if you catch the drift. Most importantly, live in the moment and have a blast!
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Try Out Body Paint
It’s like paint night, except instead of using canvases, use each other’s bodies. Try out painting each other and seeing where your creative (and sexy) intuitions take you. It’s a great way to get intimate in a really fun way!
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Host a Sexy Wine-Tasting Night
You can either go out to a wine-tasting event and come home and get sexy afterward or host your own sexy wine tasting at home. Buy bottles of new wine you haven’t tried before, and make fun cheese boards in the comfort of your own kitchen . . . oh, and you can do this activity naked as well.
